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vinnie
created 3 years ago 56 6
ugh I have a dilemma, and i'm sorry if my posts lately seem like a diary or something like I don't want everything to be all about me and my life but here's what's going on
so my friend and i hung out together all day and we were talking a lot about who they like and want to ask to homecoming and I want to be supportive of them but I like the same person :/ and I dont want this to affect our friendship :(
I didnt really tell them about how I like this person, I just said how i admire them bc they're cool and just by that my friend was mad at me. And now I feel so guilty and it sucks :[
so my friend and i hung out together all day and we were talking a lot about who they like and want to ask to homecoming and I want to be supportive of them but I like the same person :/ and I dont want this to affect our friendship :(
I didnt really tell them about how I like this person, I just said how i admire them bc they're cool and just by that my friend was mad at me. And now I feel so guilty and it sucks :[
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vinnie
3 years ago
@i_luv_bluecookies thank youu, you are very good at giving advice and encouragement :)) <333
vinnie
3 years ago
@ivy0673 thank you for the advice! I'm taking some time today to think this through and also bring some better energy to the whole thing. <333
3 years ago
@gemini.mercury that's very understandable. Dont worry, loving people isn't a crime and you friend will come around!💕
ivy
3 years ago
You don’t have to feel guilty! I think they are the one in the wrong for getting mad about it. Sounds like your friend knows you like both like them though. That’s a hard situation, idk how to go about that. But if your friend is already ready to ask them out, I’d say wait until they do and then if the person says yes, you’ll have to just get over the crush. If they say no, I think your allowed to ask them too. Just make sure to be kind about it to your friend. Or even ask them first. Not for permission, but just for a blessing or whatever idk. Idk if this is good advice but it’s just what I would do in the situation
vinnie
3 years ago
@i_luv_bluecookies thanks for this! I decided to just call them and talk it out. I told them I respect their feelings and that I'm not gonna try and steal the person. They are kind of annoyed with me, which I get.